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Many of us fail to realize the severity of soul ties when we make the decision to lay down with someone. We often hide behind coined terms such as, “savage” and “nonchalant” rather than surrendering to our emotions that follow physical intimacy. Although there are many of us (despite what society believes) that have the ability to carry on as if nothing ever happened after the, “deed is done”, most of us need to admit that as time progresses, feelings eventually resurface and for others, they tend to linger. 

Think about your experiences; are you aware of an individual that you just can’t seem to get rid of? You all may fuss and fight, have spontaneous arguments, take time apart, but then happen to find your way back to one another. Even if you’re cognizant that this person may not be good for you, they aren’t mature enough, ready or on your level, somehow you manage to look past every red flag waived in your direction due to hope, “what-ifs” and unknown soul ties. 

Spiritual bonds such as these require prayer in order to be released. No amount of social media purging and avoidance or deleting contact information and pictures will rid you of what has been internally housed. This is why sex goes deeper than penetration and stimulation; you become one with that individual during the act.

As you mature and the more seasoned you become in life, you learn loving someone does not warrant a relationship. The more time you indulge in your singleness and explore who you are as a person, you will begin to grasp the concept of what you like, dislike and need. Often times, the person that we believe to be our soul mate isn’t meant to be our life partner. With wisdom comes understanding; understanding that what you need from a person to function throughout life is far more important that what you may desire. Many of us have soul ties that we’re unaware of, but in order for you to be freed from something keeping you hostage, you must claim it.

Author: shaniselene

Hey Dolls!

I’m Shani Selene, lover of all things Beauty, Health and Lifestyle. As a former undergraduate from the University of South Florida (Go Bulls!) pursuing a career in Dermatology, adulting, prioritizing and staying true to my West Indian culture as well as who I am as person, can be quite challenging when you’re on a constant journey to find yourself. Partnering with, “The Modern Black Girl” has been such a blessing because not only do I get to network with you all, but I am granted the opportunity to hear your feedback, testimonies and overall outlook on what you believe to be the epitome of a Modern Black Girl XOXOXOXO.

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Hey Dolls! I’m Shani Selene, lover of all things Beauty, Health and Lifestyle. As a former undergraduate from the University of South Florida (Go Bulls!) pursuing a career in Dermatology, adulting, prioritizing and staying true to my West Indian culture as well as who I am as person, can be quite challenging when you’re on a constant journey to find yourself. Partnering with, “The Modern Black Girl” has been such a blessing because not only do I get to network with you all, but I am granted the opportunity to hear your feedback, testimonies and overall outlook on what you believe to be the epitome of a Modern Black Girl XOXOXOXO.