Lifestyle, Motivation, Opinions, Uncategorized

Be Selfish With Your Time And Money

My finances are in a much better state then they were last year. In order for me to get to this point I had to make some very necessary changes.I was no longer transferring money from my saving account into my checking account just to stay afloat.I became very selfish with my time. I was no longer going out of my way just for the sake of being nice.If you want something from me please know that I expect something in exchange for my efforts.Will I be compensated for my services? Will this experience help me grow as a person?


It’s not always about money but, I need  to know what’s in it for me. What will I gain from using my time,talents and skills for someone else’s benefit other than being told “Thanks, you’re so sweet for helping”.No! That’s cancelled.Gone are those days when I used to take Uber’s and city buses around town just to help someone in ways that were convenient for them.

I had to learn that people will continue to use you, if you allow them too.
If you have a side hustle or skill how many of the people in your circle are willing to support you without discounts and handouts? Please know your friends aren’t your friends if they are not willing to pay you for your work but are willing to pay a stranger full price.
Ladies, you are the boss of you. Don’t let other people bully or guilt you in to working for free. Know your worth!

When did you start living for you?

Lifestyle, Uncategorized

The Modern Black Girl- Giveaway


The Modern Black Girl has teamed up with six lovely sponsors, to put together this amazing giveaway! From bundles to credit repair, there’s a prize for everyone. Please read carefully before enter, failure to follow instructions will result in immediate disqualification. You can participate in the giveaway via our Facebook page or Instagram. Winners will be announced next Friday or 03-2-18 at 7:00 PM EST.


Choose your prize
Subscribe to TheModernBlackGirl
Follow or like sponsor page for the prize you want to win.
RE-POST giveaway image, tag the sponsor for the prize you entered to win and 3 friends. EACH RE-POST IS AN ENTRY #TheMBgGiveaway

1. Is your Credit Score holding you back from purchasing that car or house? Don’t worry MBG got you! Enter to win Two months free of credit repair service from @_brenisoambitious or Crowned Financials 
(Winner must have a score of 600 or less or a need for the service)


2. Whether you’re a tea or coffee lover, your mug game have to be strong and inspirational. Enter to win a pair of mugs by Yes Kahvi 


3. Natural or not who doesn’t love a good sew in? Specially when the hair is free! Win Three bundles of your choice from Bel’Hair 


4. For the entrepreneur Modernista’s, enter to win “Be Your Own boss” planner by Art by Addie Rawr


5. Free makeup service Shani Selene Artistry
*Winner for this prize must be based in Orlando, or willing to travel to Orlando*


Good luck ladies!